My Privacy.

DingDong! A friendly reminder here.. Be prepared for a long entry. Get yourself some snacks before laying your eyes on the very first word after this line. DingDong!


What comes in your mind when we speak of privacy? Is it necessary for us to show respects onto people's privacy? If we don't have to.. Then what IS privacy?

Look, I am not here to attack anyone.. (Including MY OWN MUM! So kindly don't lecture me after reading my entry, Thank You. I am just pointing out my views! When and where and how should I and anyone else's privacy should be respected by not only their parents, but everyone!)


Firstly~ Door/Room matters.
Alright, I know nowadays, A LOT parents doesn't allow their children to lock their bedroom's door up! BUT I think, this should be apply for children who are below 18 year old!
And I know parents are just trying to protect their children from doing silly things at the other side of the locked door..

If the children live in a happy family, with a lovely dad and a caring mum, I believe they will never try to cut themselves with knife and trying to be emo in their own room every night, or try to kill themselves in their own room.

And heres the point..
If they woried about their children so much, why don't they just let them to sleep right BETWEEN them? And not at the next room?

What? You need privacy? So you parents can DO SOMETHING WHICH KIDS ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO SEE? Hmm.. Pretty interesting eh?

Alright, and here I am to talk about MY PRIVACY.
I am turning 20 on this coming March. And I sleep alone with my own room. And I do lock my door up whenever I sleep. (Why do you lock your door when you sleep? You may ask.. What if a thief broke into your house one night huh? Well, at least I am still safe, and it saves me more time to call for help or whatever that your gonna do. Good enough to answer your question? No? Then don't lock your door when your making love with your loved one)

And here is a BIG RESPECT for my brother Wilson. He knock whenever he tries to enter my room, and not by dashing into my room. He enter without knocking only when Im in the room, and with the door widely opened. And whenever he tries to wake me up from my dream, he knocked softly and not banging on the door. How sweet he is :)

And now.. My mum. *Roll Eyes*
For your info, the keys to unlock my bedroom's door is hung on the key hanger on the wall, left hand sided to my bedroom's door. But, for strangers, to get the correct keys into my room.. their chances are like 10/20.. Because~ The keys there.. are like a bunch of grapes! Wanna get into my room? Worth trying it :) But for us( me, my mum and my bro ) we know which keys unlock which door.

So! My mum, unlock and enter my room without any knocking sometimes in the morning. Which I find it pretty.... rude and annoying.
I know many of you would say that.. " She is your mum, and that's her house, of course she can enter your room without asking for your permission!"
Yea right.. Okay.. Let's put it this way.. WHAT IF!

I am masturbating in my room, and my mum dash into my room.. and I cum..?

I am having some wild fun sex with my sex partner or whoever, and my mum entered?

I am fully naked and having phone sex with someone?

So you see..? There are many things that I definitely do not want my mum to see!
And whenever I try to tell her to knock before coming into my room.. she would just say..

" I am your mum! Is there anything I cannot see!?"

And I'll be like.. *ROLLLLLL EYES*
There is nothing that you cannot see when I was still little, But when I am 20, there is ALOT OF THINGS THAT YOU SHOULDN'T SEE! Like what you would ask.. MY DICK LA!
You all would most probably says that my mum had seen my dick when I was little.. But DUH! You think 20yo's dick looks like a 5yo's dick? Search up for porn on the internet and make comparison to some baby around you! GEEZ!

Alright! Not going to rant anymore craps about this! I think that's enough for you all to think!

Secondly~! My Letters!
And here I AM to talk about MY PRIVACY of my letters.

Whenever I received any letters via mail box. My mum would be eager to read the content. And No.. She didn't ask it from me.. She took it and read.. And no..I don't let her to read it, I'll snatch it back and say..

"Hey! This is MY LETTERS!"
"So..?" My mum would say.
"So..?! You should ask the permission from me before you can read the contents! It's my letter after all! You have to respect my privacy you know!"
"Im your mum! Is there anything that I can't see? Let me see!"

Yay! And she won by saying that! I know that YOU are my MUM! And you have all the rights to know what I am doing.. But will you at least let me have some privacy of my own please?

I believe my mum wasn't really mean it to took my letter away and read it and knowing the contents. I believe that she was just trying to get the answer about WHO had sent me letter. Since I don't receive letter often.
It could be anyone :) AhLong( underground bank, if some of you happened on not knowing what AhLong is ) perhaps? To threaten me maybe? Well, But she is pretty sure that I don't get money from AhLong.

Guess I'll just end this MAD LONG entry here..? In case some of you get really bored of this, and get really pissed about me complaining about my mum. Who care..? Me?

And as for conclusion. Should others respect others privacy? Of course they SHOULD! If we don't have to.. Then why are there roomS in our house? And not only one room?
Yea! Its to give others spaces of their own. And yea, everyone has their rights to do anything they want without letting anyone knowing it..

Well anyway..

Thanks for showing your concern MUM.. Love you as always :)

Guess that's all from me! Cheers!

UPDATES : I'LL HIGHLIGHT THIS! CAUSE MY MUM AND I JUST QUARRELED OVER THE LETTER AND MY UNFINISHED BLOG ENTRY! I DON'T LIKE PEOPLE TO PEEP ON WHAT IM TYPING/WRITTING WHEN IT'S NOT DONE! NOT ONLY MY MUM.. BUT EVERYONE!