Friday, April 9, 2010

It's the END? I don't think so.

Hmm... I strongly believe that everyone of us kind of had this feeling before.. When we felt that everything is fallen apart, and it is really the end of everything, and the end of our LIFE.

Especially when one relationship is over. And when it is over/ended/died in a very painful way which we would never thought it would ever ended that way.

Agree? I'm sure you will agree :)

I mean, seriously, do we have to be so down and moody when one's relationship is over? I mean, come on, look at the bright side! You are free now, don't you suppose to be happy now? Cause you are free to do anything and everything you want or you likes, without seeing and looking at any sour or black faces from your other half. Isn't that a good news? That is pretty a good news to me though.

Alright alright. I know I have this very moody entry before, when I broke up with my EX. But I didn't made myself to sounds like it is the end of my world right? I was just blogging about how I felt that time. So now, I am not slapping my own mouth with my own palm. Cheers!

Okay now, to my point. I have 2 friends who just broke up with their "dreamed-half" recently. Let's talk about the younger friend of mine first, before we move on to an elder one.

Here's a big shout out to ya :)
That's my man. That's the way how you handle your stuff. You cried, so what. We do. Everyone does. But that only happens on the very first minute when you get to know that it is the end of your relationship. No hangover like we had a massive amount of alcohol.

You enjoy your life the next day after you woke up from your dream. And that's it. You move on, you stop missing and crying for the past. Bravo :) I am very glad to be your listener. So proud of ya!
(If you are reading this, no worries for you man, I'm not going to tell every single part of your story here.)

Alright, now. Let us move on to a dramatic broke up hangover scene from an elder age I've mentioned.

So another of my friend broke up with his "dreamed-half" too. And when I read his Facebook's status. I don't even know whether should I be sad for him, or laugh at his status? (I know I shouldn't, but it is just really.... Ahem..)

Before I actually get the news of his broke up, I've already started to wonder why is his Facebook's status so down and moody. Without a doubt.. "He kena dumped" came into my mind.
So yea, I was right. And I get the news from our WORLD WIDE FM channels.

Okay, and here goes the romantic and funny part.

Let us have a look at what he typed on his Facebook page.

"I will pick myself up. I will be stronger. I will be wiser. I will grow. I will survive."

Okay, this doesn't sounds funny or anything at all. That is how you should be. And honestly, I thought he will really "survive" this, when he posted this on his Facebook. But what he posted next, swerved my mind from believing that he will. lol

And guess what? His "EX" even commented on his post.

"Without a doubt, you will :)"

Short note to his EX.
Geez! Stop being like a blind ass. You will never be like a saint in his eyes anymore. Even if you talk so nicely and comfort him like you are the best in this world.
Why? Cause you just hurt him. And you really have to stop your noble talks. Cause it's all bullshit to him now. Believe me :) Knit your mouth. It helps alot!

Okay now. Let's take a look at his next status.

"Every morning I wake up and feel the pain all over again"

We know. *roll eyes*

Okay, next.

Oops! I think I'll just skip the next 2 status. Cause it's just something long and random. And moody.

Now. To the last status.

"any morphine/ painkiller for heartache?"

Seriously? I mean. SERIOUSLY? I mean, ARE YOU TRYING TO BE FUNNY OR ARE YOU SERIOUS THAT YOU NEED THAT TO CURE YOUR HEARTACHE?
Ow c'mon! Who don't feel that when they broke up with their loved one? But do you really need that to cure your heartache?
You need times! (Of course la you would say to me, THEN WHY THE HELL DO YOU NEED MORPHINE?)

I don't know about you guys out there. But needing a painkiller for heartache sounds ridiculous and hillarious to the max to me. (Although I know that he was just kidding about that, But still, it sounded way too funny and stupid.)

Oh ya, there is another funny thing. Which is from the people who commented on his status. This girl was trying to spread out the words from the bible. Telling about the phrases from bible. I mean, how funny was that? And please girl, I don't think that is what your friend would want to hear from you.

Sometimes, people needs a listener rather than a consultant.

Bear that in mind.



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*This apply for the second guy*
Uhh! If YOU are reading this. Well I'm sorry for posting all this out. At least I didn't lilst your name out. You should be happy about that :) Or if you don't mind. Then I can re-edit the whole post and squeeze your name in.
You might say that I won't understand how you feel, as I am still young or whatever. Please, I may be young. But you were young once before don't you? So, what was the big point on comparing the age of yours and everyone else? Does it means that you will only listen to those who are elder than you? Okay, I'll call up my Grandma now. She is in Singapore now. Guess she is free on this coming weekend. You can talk to her perhaps? Old enough for you?



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Guys, is it really that worthy for you to keep yourself locked in your own moody world when you had your broke up? I know you needs time to recover yourself from your pain or whatever. But please, You just got to know that there is still someone out there who love ya. Your ex wasn't just the only one who loved and cared about you. He/she dumped you? Screw him/her :) And walk out of the shadow, and get yourself a better life.
It's time for you to walk out from the cave you had been hinding in. And see the bright little sunshine outside.
Not going to rant anymore craps here. There is still some BLA BLA things for me to do. Shall end it here. Cheers guys!

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Whoa !! what a nice blogging!!! In my perception, i think the first one is more optimistic than the second one, agree?

*anyway, it's just a compliment*

dIfferent*Fred* said...

I think so..? You should know better than me.. And I thought you know that guy well?

Unknown said...

Err..owh okay, whatever ya! Yea i know, thought you are close to him as well lar.. Too bad then,LOL

Leo 83 said...

Well well, loving someone, doesn't mean to have her/him, but as long as u luv him/her, who he/she be with, u'll be happy when u saw her happy!